You’re scrolling through Instagram, looking at a perfectly filtered photo of some twenty-something digital nomad posing on a Bali beach with their laptop (probably in a thong), and somehow making six figures a month while sipping coconut water.

Meanwhile, you’re in a tiny Airbnb, fighting with dodgy Wi-Fi and questionable air-con, wondering why your online side hustle isn’t taking off the way you hoped.

And just like that, self-doubt creeps in.

• Maybe I’m too old for this.
• Maybe I missed my chance.
• Maybe I should just pack it in and go home.

But the truth is that comparison is a trap! And it’s one that robs you of joy, confidence, and progress.

And for those of us in the 50+ nomad community, it can be particularly toxic.

Why Comparison is Even More Dangerous for 50+ Nomads

We’re in a unique position. Unlike the younger nomads who grew up in the digital age, many of us have had to learn how to navigate the online world.

Whether it’s starting a remote business, figuring out passive income, or simply managing the constant changes in tech. That alone is a huge achievement.

But comparison tells us a different story. It whispers: Look at them, they’ve already figured it out. You’re too slow. You’re behind.

This mindset is dangerous because it makes us forget the huge advantages we bring to the table:

• Life experience. We’ve built careers, raised families, navigated challenges. We know how to handle setbacks and keep going.
• Strong work ethic. We didn’t grow up in the “instant gratification” culture. We understand that success takes time, patience, and persistence.
• Deeper financial wisdom. Many of us have learned (sometimes the hard way) how to manage money, budget, and invest wisely—skills that help us create a sustainable nomadic lifestyle.
• Greater emotional intelligence. We know that life isn’t just about “the hustle.” We prioritize meaningful experiences, relationships, and personal growth.

But when we compare ourselves to younger, seemingly more successful nomads, we completely dismiss these advantages and focus only on what we lack. And that’s where things go wrong.

The Instagram Illusion: Why You’re Comparing Yourself to a Fantasy

Let’s talk about social media for a second. It’s not real.

Sure, those perfectly curated posts make it look like everyone else is effortlessly making money, traveling the world, and living the dream. But what you don’t see is:

• The stress of finding clients or keeping a remote business afloat.
• The homesickness that creeps in when living abroad for long stretches.
• The credit card debt or financial struggles hidden behind the scenes.
• The loneliness of constantly being on the move.
• The sheer hard work it takes to create an online income, build an audience, or master a new skill.

So when you compare yourself to someone’s highlight reel, you’re setting yourself up for frustration. You’re measuring your real life against a carefully curated illusion—and that’s never a fair comparison.

The Real Secret to Success: Compete Only with Yourself

Instead of looking sideways at what others are doing, shift your focus to your own progress.

• Track your personal growth. Are you better today than you were last year? Last month? Last week? That’s the only measure of success that matters.
• Set your own goals. What you want matters more than what others are achieving. Do you want to build a $100k business, or do you just want to make enough to comfortably fund your travels? Define success on your own terms.
• Learn from others without comparing. Instead of feeling envious, study successful people as role models. What strategies are they using? What can you apply to your own journey?
• Celebrate every win. Even small progress counts. Did you get your first client? Set up your website? Finally figure out how to schedule social media posts? Give yourself credit!

The 50+ Nomad Advantage: You’re Playing a Different Game

Our goals, values, and priorities at 50+ are different from someone in their 20s or 30s.

And that’s a good thing.

• We don’t need to chase six-figure incomes if a comfortable, sustainable business supports our lifestyle.
• We don’t need to be “hustling” 24/7—we’ve already done our time in the rat race.
• We don’t need to prove anything to anyone.

Instead, we can focus on meaningful travel, enjoying our work (rather than slaving away), and building a lifestyle that gives us freedom and fulfillment.

We’re not running the same race as younger nomads, so why compare?

Action Steps: How to Stop Comparing and Start Thriving

If comparison is stealing your joy, it’s time to take back control.

Here are some practical steps to shift your mindset:

• Unfollow accounts that make you feel “less than.” If someone’s posts leave you feeling inadequate, it’s time to mute or unfollow. Curate your social media to inspire, not discourage.
• Create a personal progress journal. Instead of measuring against others, track your own milestones and improvements. Celebrate every step forward.
• Find a supportive community. Surround yourself with like-minded 50+ nomads who understand your journey and can lift you up. (Join our Facebook group!)
• Remind yourself: There is no deadline. You are not “behind.” Life isn’t a race, and success comes in many forms.

Final Thoughts: Own Your Journey

At the end of the day, comparing yourself to others is a waste of energy. That energy is far better spent building the life you want—on your terms, at your pace, and in a way that truly fulfills you.

So next time you find yourself caught in the comparison trap, pause and ask:

Is this helping me, or holding me back?

Then, shift your focus back where it belongs—on your own growth, progress, and adventure.

Your Turn!

Have you struggled with comparison as a 50+ nomad?

What’s one thing you’re focusing on for yourself right now?

Make it happen and focus on becoming the version of yourself that feels right for you. No comparisons needed.

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We brought one suitcase between the two of us and a small backpack each, but I quickly realised that for short motel stops, I barely touched most of what was in that suitcase.

So, next time, I’m coming prepared with a ‘go bag’—a small, grab-and-go pack with just the essentials for a one-nighter, leaving the main suitcase untouched.

If you’re constantly on the move, this little system makes life easier, whether you’re road-tripping, backpacking, or just hopping between different types of stays.

What’s in My Go Bag?

Toiletry Bag (Mini but Mighty)

• Small travel containers of shampoo, conditioner, and shower gel
• Toothbrush & toothpaste
• Makeup remover & pads
• Minimal makeup (just mascara, bronzer & a brush for me)
• Razor
• Small travel perfume spray
• Any essential meds – for me, that means Oestrogel & Utrogestan

A Small Packing Cube with Clothes

• Underwear
• One full set of clothes for the next day (shorts & t-shirt or a simple dress)
• Nightwear

Backpack Essentials

• iPad & book for downtime
• Mini first-aid/medical kit (antihistamines, paracetamol, plasters, etc.)

That’s it. Simple, compact, and perfect for those quick overnight stays without having to dig through a full suitcase.

The Beauty of Packing Light

When you’re doing short stays, you don’t need much. I tend to rotate through a few outfits anyway – jeans, shorts, a handful of tees, and one dress just in case – so for a single night, there’s no need for extra layers, swimwear, or accessories.

Most places, especially in countries like New Zealand, have laundrettes if you need a mid-trip refresh, and house sitting offers even more flexibility for washing clothes. So, instead of overpacking, you can simply wash, dry, and rotate a small selection of clothes.

How a Go Bag Makes Travel Easier

• If you’re driving, you can leave the big suitcase in the car and just grab the go bag for the night.
• If you’re travelling with a larger backpack or suitcase, keep the go bag at the top so you don’t have to rummage through everything.
• If you’re switching accommodation types, it saves the hassle of unpacking and repacking constantly.

This little system keeps things simple, light, and stress-free—because the less time spent dealing with bags, the more time spent enjoying the adventure.

Here are some more general packing tips to make your trips smoother and more efficient;

Pro Packing Tips for Smarter Travel

1. Pack in layers – Keep frequently used items (toiletries, chargers, nightwear) at the top of your bag for easy access.
2. Stick to a colour palette – Neutral, mix-and-match clothing reduces the number of outfits you need to pack.
3. Roll, don’t fold – Rolling clothes saves space and minimises wrinkles.
4. Invest in ultralight gear – A microfibre towel, compact toiletry bottles, and lightweight clothing can significantly cut down bulk.
5. Limit ‘just in case’ items – If you don’t use it at home weekly, you probably won’t need it on the road.
6. Carry a small laundry kit – A travel-sized detergent sheet and a universal sink plug mean you can wash essentials anywhere.
7. Use compression bags – Great for reducing the volume of clothes, especially bulkier items like jackets.
8. Keep a digital copy of important documents – Store scans of passports, visas, and travel insurance in cloud storage.
9. Wear your heaviest items – If you’re bringing a jacket or boots, wear them during transit to save space in your bag.
10. Have a ‘go bag’ setup – Whether it’s a go bag for one-nighters or a well-organised suitcase, having a system makes packing and unpacking effortless.

Final Thoughts

The best thing about a go bag? You don’t have to think about it. Just grab and go, knowing you have everything you need for an stress-free overnight stay. Packing less actually makes the journey feel lighter, both physically and mentally.

I hope this helps! Happy travels!

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Over the past few weeks while travelling through the Northlands of New Zealand, I’ve tried a mix of house sitting, motels, and what I can only describe as a home-stay-but-also-a-hotel experience.

Each has its perks. Each has its pitfalls. And each has taught me something about what I truly value in accommodation; mainly, my own space and a bed that doesn’t have to be shared with a dog, a cat, or my husband (if possible).

Here’s the breakdown, because if you’re travelling for any length of time, you’ll probably find yourself facing similar choices.

House Sitting: Free but Not Really

House sitting is one of those things that sounds brilliant in theory. Stay for free! Enjoy a home away from home! Cuddle a cute dog! 

And it is great. Mostly.

What’s Good:

 It’s free. Let’s be honest, this is the main reason anyone does it. Accommodation isn’t cheap in most places these days, and house sitting lets you stretch the budget further.

 You end up in unexpected places. We started our trip in Waipu, for example. Never on my radar, but suddenly, I’m knee-deep in the fascinating history of Scottish settlers who trekked halfway around the world to build a new life.

And not just any Scots—these were hardcore emigrants who left Scotland in the 1800s, sailed to Nova Scotia (as you do), found it too harsh, then packed up again and made the long voyage to New Zealand.

Imagine making that journey twice in an era where long-haul travel meant months on a cramped wooden ship, surviving on salted meat and hard biscuits.

And now their descendants run bakeries serving some of the best pies in New Zealand. History with a side of steak and cheese – I love discovering stories like this!

 Pets! A big plus. I love dogs, and having a furry friend around is a bonus.

 You can cook. No endless takeaways or sad service station sandwiches.

What’s Not So Good:

 Cleaning. You’re living in someone else’s house, so you have to clean it like it’s your own. I don’t mind vacuuming, but I hate scrubbing toilets.

Also if you get a house that doesn’t quite meet your standards of cleanliness, whether you like it or not, you will find yourself cleaning out fridges, deep cleaning bathrooms etc, just for the time you’re staying there!

 Plants. If you want to guarantee a slow and painful death for your houseplants, ask me to take care of them.

 Pets come first. Want to go on a spontaneous all-day adventure? Too bad. Fluffy needs her lunchtime walk.

 You’re often in the spare room. Which means minimal space, possibly a sofa bed, and zero room for your stuff.

 Cleaning. Did I mention cleaning?

It doesn’t mean I won’t house sit as on the whole the pros outweigh the cons. But in small doses. It certainly wouldn’t make up my whole nomadic strategy.

Hotels & Motels: The Sweet, Clean Escape

After a few days of house sitting, there is nothing more glorious than stepping into a hotel room and knowing you don’t have to clean it.

What’s Good:

 You choose your comfort level. Before booking, you can inspect photos, read reviews, and decide if it’s up to scratch. No surprise lumpy beds.

 No chores. No vacuuming, no wiping down counters, and absolutely no toilet scrubbing.

 Everything you need is just there. Towels, shampoo, tea, coffee – no rummaging through your bag to find that tiny bottle of conditioner you swore you packed. Hairdryer? Sorted. Extra pillow? Just ask.

In New Zealand and Australia they even supply milk in the fridge or ask if you want some when you’re checking in. Which for a tea addicted Brit like me is luxury! (I’m fairly easy to please )

 Freedom. No pets, no plants, no obligations. Want to wander town, grab a drink, and stay out late? Go for it.

What’s Not So Good:

 The price. Hotels prices in many countries can be eye-watering, and the longer you stay, the more painful it gets.

 Sometimes you pick a bad one. We picked a corker of a motel in Kaitaia. On first inspection it looked fine. Unfortunately it was only after I paid I tested the woeful pillows (or rather minimal bits of cushion fluff in a pillow case), and noticed the toilet could do with a deeper clean. Thankfully we were only there for one night.

The Perfect Motel

For me, the sweet spot is a mid-range motel with a kitchenette and a small lounge. Not too posh, not too basic, but comfortable, clean, and spacious enough to avoid stepping on my husband’s shoes in the middle of the night. Bonus points if there’s an extra bed to claim as my own.

The Home Stay: Fancy But… Personal?

I’ve never stayed in accommodation that explicitly markets itself as a home stay, but I did book what was advertised as boutique accommodation in Russell. Which as it turned out, it was a kind of high-end guest house run by very lovely (but very involved) hosts.

What’s Good:

 Beautiful setting. The place was stunning – an old restored house, gorgeous views, and every detail carefully thought out.

 Breakfast. Not just a bit of toast or cereal, but a surprise each morning cooked by one of the hosts, while you’re enjoying a starter of fresh fruit or homemade muesli.

On one morning I had fresh poached eggs on sourdough, with a homemade tomato paste, some type of pesto sauce and followed by specialty breads and locally made jams. (Couldn’t stay there for too many nights or would come away the size of a house!)

 Personalized service. The hosts helped book trips, recommended restaurants, and genuinely wanted to make our stay amazing.

What’s Not So Good:

 Less privacy. The bathroom was private, but not en suite, which meant creeping out into the corridor in my PJs at night. Not ideal.

 Shared kitchen access with all guests. If I wanted to make a late-night or early morning cup of tea, I had to go downstairs. Plus the milk I stored there was gone in a day. This wasn’t an issue as there was plenty in the fridge, but it did it made me feel a bit uncomfortable.

 Encouraged spending. The hosts were very keen for us to book activities through them, drink their (expensive) wine, and dine at their recommended restaurants. Very nice of them, but the recommended Italian restaurant wasn’t that great (and very expensive for what it was), I booked what I considered to be a much better value for money boat trip (and had an absolutely brilliant day), and I’m all good with a cheaper, but nice bottle of plonk from the Liquor Store!

 Breakfast. Yes the breakfasts were lovely and personally I did enjoy the surprise element, but… Breakfast was between 8 – 8.30 sharp every day, and you got what you were given.

As I said this worked for us this time around, but once again that lack of self-choice sneaks in there just enough to make it less favourable for me.

Would I stay in a home stay again? Probably not. I like autonomy and my own privacy too much.

Final Verdict: What’s Right for You?

• If you love animals, don’t mind cleaning, and want to save money – house sitting is great – just know your limits.

• If you need a break from responsibilities and don’t mind paying – hotels and motels are a safe bet.

• If you want a high-end, unique experience and don’t mind a bit of socialising – try a home stay – but be ready for some interaction and house rules.

For me, motels win—specifically, the kind with a kitchenette, a lounge area, and no hidden expectations.

House sitting? Best in short bursts.

Home stays? Not my vibe.

But that’s just me. What’s your take?

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• Settle down. 

• Play it safe. 

• Wither away quietly and leave the adventures to the young folks. 

But let me ask you; who wrote that script? 

And more importantly, why are we still following it?

I’ve spent countless hours talking with people who’ve completely transformed their lives after 50, 60, even 70 & beyond. 

You know what the common thread is? 

• It’s not money.
• It’s not some special talent.

It’s simply the courage to say, “This isn’t the story I want to tell anymore.”

The Truth About Starting Over

Let’s be brutally honest. Starting over is scary at any age. 

But after 50, it feels like the stakes are higher. 

We’ve built lives, careers, reputations. We have responsibilities. People depend on us. And yet… that nagging feeling persists. 

The one that whispers, “Is this all there is?“

But that whisper isn’t a midlife crisis as the world would have you believe. 

It’s not a breakdown.

It’s your authentic self trying to break through years of “shoulds” and “musts” and “that’s just how it is.”

Breaking Free from the Age Trap

The most insidious lie we tell ourselves isn’t “I’m too old.” 

It’s “I need to act my age.” 

What does that even mean? 

Age isn’t a behavior manual. It’s just a number that tells you how many times you’ve circled the sun.

Think about it – we’re living in an era where 50 looks nothing like it did for our parents or grandparents. 

We’re healthier, more active, and have access to opportunities they couldn’t have imagined. 

So why are we using their (whoever they are) rulebook?

The Reality of Change

The great thing about transforming your life after 50 is that we have advantages younger people don’t. 

• We know ourselves better. 

• We’ve stopped caring so much about what others think. 

• We can spot BS from a mile away. 

And most importantly, we know the difference between what we want and what we’ve been conditioned to want.

So screw society. Let’s rewrite our story with any dang plot we want!

Steps That Actually Work

Here’s how to get started;

1. Stop asking for permission. You don’t need anyone’s approval to change your life. Not your kids’, not your partner’s, not society’s. This is your story to write.
2. Get clear about what you actually want – not what you think you should want. Sit down with a journal and write without censoring yourself. What would you do if you knew you couldn’t fail?
3. Start with one small change. Just one. Maybe it’s taking a class in something you’ve always been curious about. Maybe it’s booking that solo trip you’ve been dreaming of. The size of the goal doesn’t matter. The action does.

Facing the Fear (Because It Will Show Up)

Fear will come knocking. 

That’s not a maybe – it’s a guarantee. 

The trick isn’t to wait for the fear to go away (it won’t). The trick is to acknowledge it and move forward anyway.

Fear is just excitement without the breath. (I love that saying)

Sometimes, the thing that scares you most is exactly what you need to do.

Surround Yourself with the Right People

Don’t go it alone! Connect with others who understand your journey:

• Build friendships that inspire growth, new ideas, and bold steps into your next chapter.
• Join online communities (like the 50+ Nomad community!) where shared experiences and goals bring everyone together.
• Find practical advice and encouragement from people walking the same path.
• Learn from mentors who’ve successfully transitioned to this exciting lifestyle.

The Truth About Time

Time might feel limited, but that’s what makes it so valuable.

It’s never too late to start something new, explore a dream, or take the leap you’ve been considering.

Instead of focusing on what you think you’ve missed, shift your energy to what’s still possible. The only timeline that matters is the one you create for yourself, starting today.

Your Next Chapter

The best stories are the ones that surprise us. The ones that take unexpected turns. The ones where the protagonist decides to rip up the script and write their own ending.

Your story isn’t finished. Not even close. The most interesting part might be the one you haven’t written yet.

What happens next? 

That’s entirely up to you.

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Every year during the spring and autumn equinoxes, a fascinating event occurs at the Temple of Kukulcán. As the sun sets, the light and shadows create the illusion of a serpent slithering down the steps, symbolizing the Maya feathered serpent god, Kukulcán. Even though I wasn’t there for the equinox, if you stand in the right place you can see the serpent.

That was just one of the magical tales! Full of legend and history the magic of Chichen Itzá is palpable.

Exploring the Archaeological Site

We arrived early, just as the site was opening, which meant we could enjoy the peace and capture some lovely photos of the impressive Temple of Kukulcán before the crowds rolled in.

Our guide was wonderful, taking us on a journey through the entire site delighting us with stories of Mayan legends and history.

It was fascinating but hot! Bring plenty of water if you go!

Overall, a fantastic & highly recommended trip, especially if you love a bit of ancient history swathed in mystery!

Here’s some tips for exploring Chichén Itzá;

1. First, get there early! Chichen Itzá is one of the most popular archaeological sites in Mexico, and the earlier you arrive, the fewer crowds you’ll have to compete with. You’ll also beat the heat, which can be intense as the day goes on.
   
2. Second, I highly recommend hiring a guide. The history and legends woven into the stones of this ancient city are what make the visit truly special. A guide can explain the meaning behind the structures and share the stories that bring Chichen Itzá to life, far beyond what you’d learn by simply walking around on your own.
   
3. Be wary of some tours, though. Many reviews warn that you’re taken to souvenir shops for long stretches, which eats into your time at the actual site. We wanted to spend our time soaking up the history, not shopping, so instead of a group tour, we hired a driver for the day. This gave us total flexibility, and we were able to spend over 2.5 hours exploring Chichen Itzá at our own pace.

If you’re considering this option, we booked Armando, an excellent driver, for 6000 pesos (about $330 USD), and it was worth every penny. With Armando, we had control over our itinerary and avoided the tourist traps, which made the experience much more personal. I’ll include a picture and his contact details below if you’re interested in doing the same!

Ik Cil Cenote

From there, we headed to the Ik Kil Cenote for a refreshing dip. (And boy was it refreshing!)

Cenotes are natural sinkholes thought to be formed by the same meteor impact that wiped out the dinosaurs! They were also sacred to the Mayans, & seen as gateways to the underworld.

You’ll only need 30-45 mins here for a quick dip to cool down. Be careful on the steps though, they’re slippery!

Xoximilco: A Night on the Canals

One of the highlights of our week was Xoximilco, a floating fiesta on the canals in Cancun.

This was a dinner party on a brightly decorated boat, with tequila flowing, troubadours serenading us, and a mariachi band playing lively tunes as we cruised along the river.

An evening full of laughter, music, and more than a bit of dancing—an absolute must if you’re ever in Cancun and looking for a really fun, very Mexican night out.

Speedboat Tour Through the Mangroves

Another fun adventure this week was a two-hour speedboat tour through the mangroves, ending at Punta Nizuc to see more of the underwater statues. We got to drive our own speedboat which unfortunately broke down a couple of times on route. But overall it was a thrilling ride through the waterways!

Coco Bongo: A Night to Remember

And then, on our last night, there was Coco Bongo.

My daughter and I had a blast at this legendary club, with acrobatics, dancing, and entertainment that was next level.

At one point, my daughter even ended up on stage with the DJ and we finally left around 2:30 a.m.—way past my bedtime—but so worth it. The energy of Coco Bongo is unmatched, and it was an incredible way to cap off our time in Cancun.

Onwards

All in all, Cancun was an amazing trip, filled with adventure, history, sun, sea and loads of fun and I highly recommend a trip there if you get the chance!

Now I’m writing this update from the UK, where we’ve popped back to see family for my great nephew’s first birthday. And this week, I’m also off to see MJ the Musical in London before heading off to France for a few days! Lo

More adventures to follow!

Au revoir friend!

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On September 16, 1810, Miguel Hidalgo y Costilla, a Catholic priest in the town of Dolores (now Dolores Hidalgo in Guanajuato), called upon the local people to rise up against the Spanish colonial government.

His passionate speech, given from his church, encouraged rebellion, and it is widely regarded as the start of the Mexican War of Independence.

Every year on the night of September 15, the President of Mexico reenacts this historic moment by delivering the Grito de Dolores from the balcony of the National Palace in Mexico City, shouting “¡Viva México!” and ringing a bell, just as Hidalgo did.

This is replicated in cities and towns all over Mexico, including Cancun!

And last night my sister & I bore witness to the Mayor of Cancun performing the grito in the Parque de las Palapas in Cancún Centro.

Stalls, street food, music, decorations, thousands of local families & jam packed restaurants lined the streets as the celebrations kicked off around 7pm.

We first stopped for some ‘delisioso’ pastor nachos & a cold Mexican beer to take in our vibrant surroundings. Then walked the streets relishing the sights, sounds & smells.

“Viva Mexico!” rang out around us, on the buses, in the bars, from the vendors.

At just before 11pm there was a short military display followed by the Mayors speech which culminated with an impressive drone display, music, and celebrations as the crowd chanted “¡Viva México!” “Viva Cancún!” in response.

It was a fantastic atmosphere and I’m over the moon we got to see it and join in the celebrations!

A definite highlight of our trip!

A Birthday Outing on the Caribbean Sea

Aside from that joyous occasion, Friday was my birthday!

We spent the day sailing out to Isla Mujeres on a ‘luxury’ catamaran with an open bar, music, snorkelling at another MUSA spot & then relaxing at a beach club on the island.

While that sounds glorious (and overall it was), we made a bit of a rookie mistake when booking it.

Instead of booking directly or via a travel booking app, we took a punt at one of the travel agent booths you find in tourist shopping areas. We didn’t check the reviews of the company or do too much due diligence and as a result the lady who sold us the trip completely misled us.

We paid for a ‘luxury’ day out all fees included and ended up on an over crowded boat, were hit with surprise fees, and didn’t get half of what we were promised, including the premium beach club or parasailing. While we certainly made the best of the day it was not the premium experience we were sold.

When checking the Google reviews after the fact, we found them rampant with complaints.

So hot tip!

Always check reviews before booking, and beware travel agency booths as they may overpromise and underdeliver, and some will inflate prices significantly. It’s a good idea to do your due diligence, compare prices on the company’s own website vs. third-party apps like Get Your Guide or Viator, and don’t be afraid to ask direct questions about extra fees.

Ultimately, booking directly or through a trusted platform often ensures you get what you’re paying for and avoids the hassle of a disappointing experience.

With that being said, I spent the day in the Caribbean Sea with my family. It doesn’t get much better than that!

Other highlights included;

• Trying Chicken Mole – a traditional Mexican dish featuring chicken in a rich, savoury sauce made with spices and chocolate.
  
• Discovering Pastor Tacos – a traditional Mayan dish with marinated pork, cooked on a spit, and served in soft tortillas with pineapple, onions, and cilantro.
  
• Tasting a Devils Margarita (Tequila, strawberry, syrup, chamoy and miguelito) which is gorgeous! (For someone who doesn’t drink spirits and distinctly dislikes Tequila this was an interesting discovery)
  
• Seeing the new Transformers movie in the local cinema with reclining seats & gourmet popcorn!

(No wonder my waistline has grown – all my highlights involve food & drink!)

Coming up;

• Chicken Itzá
  
• Xoximilco Mexican Fiesta
  
• Coco Bongo
  
• Speedboat Tour!
  

See my post on the Best Things to do in Cancun here.

Viva Mexico!

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As he motioned for us to get closer with one hand, I saw his other hand grab the back of the BCD of the guy in front & yank him backwards.

As I swam closer I saw the huge tail fin as my husband frantically signaled ‘shark’ to anyone looking in his direction.

As I pulled level I saw the massive body & head of the 3 metre nurse shark laying under the rock.

The guy diving with us had got a bit too close and as we hovered, taking in the mass of the giant fish before us, just minding his own business, none of us wanted to get any closer!

Minutes later we were at 5 metres doing the 3 minute safety stop when the story of the female financier killed by a shark while on the safety stop in Costa Rica came to mind.

‘It’s a bloody nurse shark Jo’, I said to myself. ‘Get a grip’.

Clearly I’m still here to tell the tale!

All in all a super eventful week scuba diving in Cancun.

Diving with Scuba Diving Cancun and the lovely Danny & Captain Antonio we’d started our adventures at;

The MUSA Underwater Museum

With the goal of saving nearby local coral reefs damaged by tourism, director of the Cancun National Marine Park – Jaime Gonzalez Canto, wanted to create a man-made area of ph-neutral concrete structures, with some well placed corals, to draw tourists away, from the more popular local reefs.

Unfortunately artificial coral gardens take years to flourish, so after some lengthy research he found artist & sculptor Jason Decaires Taylor, already experimenting with underwater sculptures in the Caribbean.

They teamed up to create what is now called MUSA and in 2010 opened the ocean doors to an initial installation of almost 500 statues!

How Best to Experience The Museum

The main collection is called Silent Evolution and includes some 450 statues which over the last decade have become a haven for corals and marine life.

There is also a submerged Volkswagen beetle now covered in plants and underwater life and other scenes and collections created by a variety of artists.

There are a total of three sites, two for scuba diving as the statues are between 8 – 10m and one for snorkelers, with statues sitting at 2 – 4m.

There’s also a glass bottom boat tour if you don’t fancy venturing into the water at all.

As one of my top 10 bucket list items, I was thrilled to find myself having my pic taken with the iconic car!

It’s truly one for your bucket list. The statues are amazing and it feels surreal & strangely spiritual swimming around and between them.

We then headed to Manchones reef which was filled with life including; turtles, barracudas, sting rays, sharks, schools of (yellowish), puffer fish and more.

Two days later we again boarded the trusty Lemon Divers boat as Danny gave his spirited safety talk & showed us his unique hand signal for ‘big f’ing shark’!

A beautiful drift dive was waiting for us at Grampine, meaning we could relax and take in all the fields of coral and life around us.

Arriving at a lively feeding station with thousands of fish enjoying the coral, my mind flitted to the Will Smith movie ‘A Sharks Tale’ and I imagined the fish scurrying to school or work! (I have a vivid imagination). 

I didn’t think I could top it but the second dive at Santa Romedio brought even more life and in Danny’s unique underwater sign language, a ‘f’ing big shark’!

The chap with us, Trey from Texas, said he didn’t think anything could beat Cozumel but he ascended each dive with cries of ‘oh my f’ing God, that was amazing!’

And as someone who has had the great privilege of diving in the Similans in Thailand, El Nido in the Philippines, Bali, Borneo and many other places around the world, I have to agree with him. The dives were fabulous, made even more so by the sheer lack of tour boats or tourists around us. We had both the museum and the reef to ourselves!

Plus Danny was a top drawer dive guide and navigated us expertly through the beautiful underwater world. Highly recommended!

Find more details on Danny & Scuba Diving Cancun here.

Sun, Sand & a Tropical Storm

Aside from diving, we’ve been enjoying the sun, the sand and the surf here at Westin Lagunamar as we’ve caught the very tail end of a tropical storm & the waves are ferocious!

Thankfully happy hour takes place poolside!

On Friday my hubby & I had date night at The Parilla Grill and tasted some authentic Mayan cuisine in the form of marinated chicken fajitas and Pastor Tacos – marinated minced pork and pineapple. It was, in the language of the locals, ‘delicioso’!

We then decided to explore some ancient Mayan ruins next to the hotel on our walk home & got front row seats to the beach party Fire Show!

All in all a great second week here in Cancun Mexico! 

This coming week, my sister joins us for 10 days as of Monday and it’s my birthday on Friday, so another fun week ahead I’m sure!

The only downside is I’m struggling for time to work, although here’s where I’m at writing this very post!

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Although the sea was pretty choppy & it was hard going I’d held my own, keeping pace with my husband, and loved jumping off into the cool water to explore the wreck.

Getting back into the kayak was challenging but with four guys holding the boat, I stood on my husband’s knee & unglamorously clambered back up into my seated position.

The way back was even choppier and the journey felt like it was taking forever, but I was feeling strong & proud of my kayaking efforts.

And then….

We must have caught a wave at the wrong moment & within a second I plunged into the water, the overturned kayak following suit & my new sunglasses sinking to the ocean floor.

Panic set in. I knew there was no way I was getting back into the kayak in the middle of the ocean with no leverage, & I was acutely aware that I wasn’t in the Andaman Sea anymore! (Thailand reference, where there are no sharks – or none that will kill you).

The guide quickly kayaked over to us shouting words of encouragement. ‘You can do it’ he said in his beautifully vibrant Spanish accent. ‘I believe in you.’

Unfortunately I couldn’t do it, no matter his belief.

He threw me his flippers and I decided to try swimming back to the shore. However after a few strokes I realised that the water was way too rough for me to make any decent headway without completely running out of energy. Plus I was extremely nervous of what might be swimming beneath me! (I feel much safer scuba diving!)

The guide jumped out of his kayak, held his side up to make it easier for me to grab on to, and using the flippers as leverage I was finally able to pull myself back up into the tiny vessel.

I was tired, bruised & embarrassed and silently shed a few tears on our way back in, as I berated myself for not keeping up my gym sessions & allowing myself to become weak & heavy.

Meanwhile my poor husband was battling the rough seas on his own behind us in a two man kayak, which kept lifting its front in protest at the crashing waves.

Poor guy was knackered by the time we reached the beach!

Also unbeknownst to me two poor Mexican lads had been taken completely off course by the winds & had to be rescued! 

All in all a fun couple of hours had by all on what’s usually a short & uneventful kayak trip to a local wreck! 

This was just one of many exciting events in our first week in Cancun Mexico!

Snorkelling With Whale Sharks

My daughter & I also went on a day trip to snorkel with whale-sharks. She happily saw them, but I, a split second behind her unfortunately completely missed them.

But I did meet two travelling Israeli lads & a Kiwi chap travelling the world with his family for a year.

We spent the entire boat trip swapping ideas, bucket lists, best places to visit etc, so all in all it was a great and fun day out.

Why are Pirates, Pirates?

Because they arrrrrrrrr…

Another highlight was a raucous night out on a pirate ship called The Jolly Roger. 

The evening consisted of a show, open bar & dinner and I highly recommend it if you ever find yourself this side of the world.

The ‘pirates’ worked flat out to keep us entertained, the music & storyline was top drawer, loads of audience participation and probably a bit too much tequila! (Especially for someone who, as a rule, doesn’t touch the stuff!) 

A brilliant and fun night out.

Other than that the Villa Del Palma resort in Cancun is fantastic.

They have music by the pool all day, different performances, pool games, Zumba and loads of activities.

All in all a fabulous first week. The only downside is that it went too fast!

On To Week 2

As I write I’m sitting poolside of our new hotel in the Hotel Zone – The Westin Lagunamar.

So far so good. It’s not quite as ‘Mexican’ as the last hotel. A little more sterile looking and to date no performances or music. But we haven’t explored all the pools yet.

It is however absolutely beautiful & the ocean & beach are stunning! 

Tomorrow we take on one of my bucket list items – scuba diving MUSA, the Cancun underwater museum! I can’t wait!

Week 2 update next week!

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As I write it’s almost the end July but we became full time nomads on 31st May (which feels like forever ago, not less than 2 months.)

So after 10+ years living in Phuket, Thailand while my daughter attended an International school there, she finally finished in May and we left our home to fulfil our dreams of becoming full time nomads.

(Mine & my husband dreams, not my daughters – will come to that).

So while our 17 year old was gallivanting around Singapore and Boracay in the Philippines on her graduation trip, hubby and I took a well earned break at a beautiful hotel in Khao Lak, just North of Phuket.

Then after a short stay in the Bang Tao area back in Phuket, we jumped on a plane to the UK for the summer.

So this is where the best laid plans….

The goal was to house sit across the UK for the summer and see friends/family along the way (I’m originally from the UK).

Then in October after a short stint in France visiting more friends, we’ll head back to Phuket for a couple of weeks on route to a year in Oz.

My daughter can work in Oz and save money to achieve her dream of attending music college in London from Sept 25.

However one of our house sits changed the dates and we found ourselves with some extra time on our hands so we’ve added in a sneaky trip to Cancun in Sept. 

I’ve never been to Mexico, so although this will be a touristy trip vs a cultural trip (will save the culture for when our daughter is at college and we can backpack through Mexico and the rest of Central & South America), it will be a first for me which I’m very excited about.

In fact I wrote on this post – Once in a Lifetime Trips – about the underwater museum in Muse and now I get to go there!

So right now, we’re in a lovely house in a town called Baldock in Hertfordshire. We leave on 31st July to house sit No 4, which is a beautiful house in a place called Balham, not far from the city of London, which I’m very excited about. (London – in my humble opinion – is one of the best cities on the planet).

Quick overview of my thoughts on house sitting so far;

Pros;

1. Free accommodation
2. Looking after beautiful animals who are gorgeous (provided you like animals)
3. Exploring areas you may not have explored before
4. Meeting new people, hearing their stories, expanding your views of the world

Cons; 

1. It’s someone else’s house so you do feel like you’re walking on egg shells a bit
2. UK homes are mainly small, creaky and cold (even in the summer) – I think house sitting in warmer climes would suit me better
3. Always check sleeping arrangements – house sit 1 – a mattress in the attic, house sit 3 – a sofa bed in a cold room downstairs. Not ideal in your 50’s & beyond (we like a bit of comfort at our age)
4. Not ideal with a teenager in tow. I think will be easier with 2 rather than 3. 

Here’s a post on house sitting if it’s something that interests you – How to House Sit Your Way Around The World.

So that’s it for this months update. My goal is to do one a month, so the next one will be the end of Aug. In the meantime here’s a few pics from our adventures so far!

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After 5 years in our lovely house and 7.5 years in the same expat neighbourhood, we finally pulled the plug and have started our nomad journey.

The most heart-wrenching moment was saying goodbye to our beloved rescue dog, Buddy. Fortunately, he’s moving in with a family who already know and love him like their own. They live just a few doors from us and Buddy has grown up staying regularly with them and playing with their beautiful same age labrador Honey.

While it’s comforting to know he’ll be loved and well cared for, it didn’t make the farewell any easier. Seeing my usually very stoic husband show some raw emotion was particularly gut wrenching.

Our journey began yesterday afternoon in Khao Lak, about 90 minutes north of our house in Phuket. We’ve planned a 9-day stay at a lovely hotel here to rest and recharge after the whirlwind of the past few weeks, which included our daughter’s graduation, packing, and moving.

However, instead of feeling excited and looking forward to this new chapter, I found myself overwhelmed with regret and homesickness last night. I longed for the comfort of my house, my couch, my bed, and of course cuddles with Buddy.

The thought of living out of bags and hotel rooms suddenly filled me with dread, and after hours of tossing and turning, I fell into a disturbed and anxious sleep.

I realise in the cold light of day that it is going to take some time to adjust to this new reality. But despite the fears and uncertainties, I know in my heart that embracing this nomadic lifestyle is not only right path for us, but also an incredible an opportunity for growth, adventure, and self-discovery.

Here’s why I’ve chosen to throw myself into the deep end and embark on this journey, at the ripe young age of 51!

Reason 1: This Was Always the Plan!

When we first embarked on our online adventure in 2010, our plan was to travel full time. We took our first step by house-sitting for a friend in Cyprus, with our then 4-year-old daughter in tow.

It was during this time that we began building our online business, which would become the foundation for our nomadic lifestyle.

After Cyprus, we lived in Australia for a while but continued to travel through Thailand. As our daughter reached school age, we made the decision to settle in Thailand and adopt the expat lifestyle.

At the time, it seemed like the perfect compromise – we could provide our daughter with a stable education while still enjoying the benefits of living abroad.

However, as the years passed, Phuket became increasingly expensive, and our once-flexible lifestyle started to feel more like a ball and chain.

We found ourselves tied to one place, waiting for our daughter to finish school before we could resume our original plan of full-time travel.

New Beginnings

Now, 14 years after we first set out on this journey, we’re finally picking up where we left off. Our daughter is nearly 18, and we’re ready to embrace the nomadic lifestyle we always dreamed of.

Of course, embarking on this adventure feels very different at 51 than it did at 37. We’re older, wiser, and perhaps a bit more cautious than we were back then. But we’re also more experienced, more resilient, and more certain of what we want out of life.

In many ways, this journey feels like a fulfilment of a long-held promise to ourselves. It’s a chance to reconnect with our original vision and to create the life we’ve always wanted.

And while it may come with its own set of challenges and uncertainties, we know that it’s a path we’re meant to take.

Reason 2: Facing Fears and Stepping Out of My Comfort Zone

As we navigate through life, it’s easy to become comfortable with the familiar and avoid stepping out of our comfort zones. This is especially true as we grow older, when the idea of making significant changes can seem more daunting than ever.

However, facing our fears head-on and embracing new challenges is not only empowering but also essential for personal growth and fulfilment.

Comfort zones are, by definition, comfortable. They’re the spaces where we feel safe, secure, and in control. But while there’s certainly nothing wrong with enjoying the cosiness of familiarity, it’s important to recognize that staying within our comfort zones can also be limiting.

When we become too comfortable, we risk stagnating, missing out on new experiences, and failing to reach our full potential.

Embracing new challenges and confronting the things that scare us can have a profound impact on our confidence, resilience, and overall life satisfaction. By pushing ourselves to try new things and venture into unknown territories, we prove to ourselves that we are capable of much more than we often give ourselves credit for.

This newfound confidence can spill over into other areas of our lives, making us more self-assured and better equipped to handle the ups and downs that come our way.

Facing our fears is also a powerful way to keep our minds sharp and our emotions in check.

When we challenge ourselves and step outside of our comfort zones, we create new neural pathways in our brains, which can help to keep us mentally agile and adaptable. This is particularly important as we age, as it can help to stave off cognitive decline and keep us engaged and excited about life.

Of course, stepping out of your comfort zone can be scary. It requires a willingness to be vulnerable, to take risks, and to embrace the possibility of failure. But it’s precisely this willingness to be uncomfortable that sets the stage for personal development and transformation.

By leaning into the discomfort and pushing through the fear, we become more resilient, adaptable, and self-assured.

In my case, the decision to leave behind the comfort and familiarity of my home and embark on a nomadic lifestyle is a direct confrontation of my fears. It’s a choice to embrace the unknown, to push myself beyond what feels safe and comfortable, and to prove to myself that I am capable of thriving in new and challenging circumstances.

Reason 3: Staying Young Through Adversity

One of the most surprising benefits of facing adversity is its ability to keep us feeling young and vibrant.

When we encounter challenges and obstacles, we’re forced to tap into our reserves of strength, creativity, and resilience. We have to think on our feet, adapt to new circumstances, and find innovative solutions to problems we may never have encountered before.

This process of constant adaptation is crucial for maintaining a youthful outlook and spirit, regardless of our chronological age.

When we embrace adversity as an opportunity for growth and learning, we stay mentally and emotionally flexible. We avoid getting stuck in ruts or becoming rigid in our thinking, which can make us feel old and stagnant.

Adversity also has a way of putting things into perspective.

When we’re faced with real challenges, the small, everyday stresses that once seemed so important suddenly feel much less significant.

This shift in perspective can be incredibly liberating, allowing us to let go of petty concerns and focus on what truly matters.

In my case, the adversity of leaving behind my comfortable home and embarking on a nomadic lifestyle is sure to keep me on my toes. I’ll be constantly encountering new people, places, and situations, each with its own set of challenges and opportunities. I’ll need to be adaptable, open-minded, and willing to learn from each new experience.

But rather than seeing this adversity as a hardship, I’m choosing to view it as an adventure.

By embracing the challenges that come my way and staying open to the lessons they have to teach me, I know that I’ll be approaching life with a sense of wonder and enthusiasm. And while the road ahead may be uncertain, I’m excited to see where this adventurous mindset will take me.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

Reason 4: Reinventing Myself Through Travel

Travel has a way of changing us in profound and unexpected ways.

When we leave behind the familiar routines and surroundings of our everyday lives, we create space for new perspectives, experiences, and discoveries.

We encounter new people, cultures, and ways of living that challenge our assumptions and broaden our horizons. In the process, we often find ourselves questioning who we are, what we want, and what truly matters to us.

This process of self-reflection and self-discovery is at the heart of why I believe travel is such a powerful tool for personal reinvention. Every new place I visit, every new experience I have, and every new person I meet will contribute to a shifting sense of self.

By immersing myself in new environments and embracing new challenges, I’m giving myself permission to explore different facets of my identity and to imagine new possibilities for my life.

Perhaps I’ll discover a hidden talent or passion that I never knew I had. Maybe I’ll meet someone who inspires me to pursue a new career path or philanthropic venture. Or perhaps I’ll simply gain a deeper appreciation for the beauty and diversity of the world around me, and a stronger sense of my place within it.

The beauty of travel is that it breaks us out of our routine and exposes us to new ideas and ways of being. It challenges us to adapt, to grow, and to see the world (and ourselves) through fresh eyes.

And while the process of personal reinvention is never easy, I believe that travel provides a unique and powerful catalyst for this kind of transformation.

Ultimately, the decision to embark on this nomadic adventure is about more than just seeing new places or having new experiences. It’s about giving myself permission to explore, to grow, and to become the best version of myself – wherever the journey may lead.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

Reason 5: Embracing the Gift of Lifelong Learning and Adventure

As we grow older, it’s easy to fall into the trap of thinking that our best years are behind us and that it’s too late to pursue our dreams or embark on new adventures. However, I believe that every moment we have is a precious gift, and that there’s no better time than the present to make the most of it.

One of the greatest benefits of travelling later in life is the opportunity it provides for lifelong learning and personal growth. By immersing ourselves in new cultures, trying new things, and stepping outside of our comfort zones, we continue to expand our horizons and gain fresh perspectives on the world and our place in it.

Travel has a way of challenging our assumptions, forcing us to question our beliefs, and opening our minds to new ways of thinking and being.

Whether it’s learning a new language, trying a new food, or engaging in meaningful conversations with people from different backgrounds, each new experience adds to our understanding of ourselves and the world around us.

The process of continuous learning and personal growth is also essential for staying mentally sharp, engaged, and curious as we age.

By embracing new challenges and experiences, we keep our minds active and agile, staving off cognitive decline and maintaining a youthful sense of wonder and enthusiasm for life.

For me, embarking on this nomadic adventure is not just about seeing new places or having new experiences, but about seizing the opportunity to make the most of the second half of my life.

Plus if I can inspire others along the way and demonstrate that it’s never too late to pursue your passions, challenge yourself, and create a life story that inspires and leaves a lasting impact on the world, all the better!

Reason 6: Living with Purpose and Passion

At the core of my decision to embrace a nomadic lifestyle is a deep desire to live a life of purpose and passion. For me, this means aligning my daily actions and choices with my values, pursuing experiences that bring me joy and fulfilment, and making a positive impact on the world around me.

In many ways, the decision to leave behind the comfort and security of my home is a reflection of this commitment to living purposefully.

By letting go of the things that no longer serve me – whether it’s material possessions, limiting beliefs, or stagnant routines – I’m creating space for the things that truly matter.

By embracing a life of travel and adventure, I’m opening myself up to new opportunities to learn, grow, and make a difference.

One of the things I’m most passionate about is exploring the world and connecting with people from diverse cultures and backgrounds. I believe that travel has the power to break down barriers, increase understanding, and create bridges of empathy and compassion.

By immersing myself in new communities and learning from the people I meet along the way, I hope to gain a deeper appreciation for the richness and complexity of the human experience.

At the same time, living a nomadic lifestyle allows me to pursue my passions in a more focused and intentional way. Without the distractions and obligations of a traditional home life, I’ll have the freedom and flexibility to devote myself fully to the things that bring me joy and fulfilment.

Whether it’s writing, photography, volunteering, or simply spending quality time with loved ones, I’ll be able to prioritise the activities and experiences that matter most to me.

Ultimately, my decision to embrace a nomadic lifestyle is about more than just travel or adventure. It’s about living in alignment with my deepest values and desires, and making the most of the precious time I have on this earth.

And while the road ahead may be uncertain, I’m excited to see where this purposeful and passionate approach to life will take me.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

Final Thoughts

As I sit here, at a breakfast table in The Outrigger, Khao Lak, on this rainy Saturday morning on the cusp of this new adventure, I can’t deny that there’s a big part of me that feels scared and uncertain.

The thought of leaving behind the comfort and familiarity of my home, my routine, and of course our little Bud, is daunting.

To be honest there’s a part of me that wishes I was in my twenties again, with the boundless energy and fearlessness of youth.

However, I also recognize that at 51, I bring a level of wisdom, perspective, and appreciation to this journey that I simply didn’t have in my 20s. I know that I’ll savour each new experience, each new connection, and each new lesson in a way that my younger self never could have.

And while I may not have quite the same physical energy I did back then, I believe that the adventure itself will reinvigorate me, filling me with a renewed sense of purpose and vitality.

If you’ve ever dreamed of taking a similar leap, I encourage you to listen to your heart and take that first step. The world is waiting, and the possibilities are endless.

Embrace the journey, stay open to the lessons and opportunities that come your way, and trust in your ability to navigate whatever challenges lie ahead.

As for me, I’m ready to face the unknown, to chase my dreams, and to make the most of this one wild and precious life. The road ahead may be uncertain, but I know that with an open heart, a curious mind, and a spirit of adventure, I’m exactly where I’m meant to be.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​

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